Saturday, July 18, 2009

Five Unwavering Truths About Disciplining Middle Schoolers

1. Discipline means "to teach" - it does not mean to punish. Accordingly, it should be done as way to instill the idea of continuous self-improvement.

2. Consistency is the key. No matter what the approach you use to discipline, it's crucial to be consistent about it. In other words, the morning rules should also apply in the afternoon.

3. Be patient. No discipline strategy works all the time - but that doesn't mean the strategy isn't working overall.

4. Middle schoolers need and want limits. Effective Discipline doesn't stifle kids - it gives them a strong, dependable foundation from which to grow and mature.

5. Discipline isn't just about correcting what your child does wrong - it's about celebrating what he/she does right. The more you praise and reinforce the good things he/she does, the more he/she will want to do the right things.


Adapted from information from the Parent Institute.



Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishments.

Jim Rohn

2 comments:

Mr. Nunkester said...

Hey Mr. S,

Great blog entry as usual! Just thought I'd let you know I'll be at FedEx Field on 8/22 for the Skins preseason game with the Steelers! If you're going, we should get together!!

Go Skins,
Mr. Nunk

Tom Saunders said...

I haven't gotten my ticket yet, but if I do...I will get back in contact with you.

Enjoy...GO SKINS!